Online Dating: Finding Love Via The Web

Finding a partner with whom you want to spend your life with is something many people worry about. The longer a person goes without their special someone, the more anxious they get that Cupid and Fate isn’t going to find that person for us.

A lot of people fret about where they might find their ideal partner and there are generally three main places to find them – social events, in daily life or through a friend. Many find their dream girl on a night out but this thought scares some – do you really give out the best first impression you could after a few drinks? The work commute often puts you in close proximity to that cute someone you've had your eye on for a while – but do you really feel confident enough, that early in the morning, in front of all those other people, to charm someone like him or her? Perhaps your friend knows someone who would be ideal for you – but how much do you trust their judgment?

Once you’ve spotted the object of your affection and plucked up the courage to speak to them, things unfortunately don’t always go smoothly. The biggest obstacle is that they may, unsurprisingly, already be in a happy relationship. Dating sites on the other hand are filled with people looking for a partner.

Long gone are the days when online dating site was seen as a last resort. Today online dating sites are filled with stunners in your age range and who live nearby.

Getting to know a little about someone online can give you the confidence to speak more fluently when you do meet in person and will help you avoid that first date going wrong because of a clear mismatch of interests or no background knowledge of each other.

The idea of running the rule over a potential partner is not a new one. In 16th century Japan, in a courting ritual known as Omiai, participants hired a matchmaker to provide resumes and pictures of potential spouses before, hopefully, arranging a formal meeting. The plan then was to ascertain whether or not after a few dates the couple would decide they were right for each other and so plan to live the rest of their lives together. Of course, this method wasn’t foolproof, but much like online dating today, it greatly increased the participants’ chance of finding a significant other.

Remember, that one person’s David Dimbelby is another’s David Beckham; it may even be said that there’s someone for everyone, online. Furthermore, the beauty of meeting someone online for the first time is that if you feel that they are not right for you then that’s fine; you can simply move on. Also, apply the same attitude with dating online as you would from offline by staying sensible on your dates – always meeting in a public place and letting someone know where you’re going can never be stressed strongly enough.

Overall, online dating can be a lot of fun, can give you a bit of confidence and, if you’re really lucky, can help you find your one true love.

Isla Campbell writes for a digital marketing agency. This article has been commissioned by a client of said agency. This article is not designed to promote, but should be considered professional content.